Wednesday, February 25, 2009

Surgery...again


YES
Before surgery they asked Russell to mark the area where they would be doing surgery. He put an X on it, but they said, “No, we need you to mark it with YES.” So, therefore he had an X and a YES on his arm. Also, they had to shave his arm before surgery. He felt like he was like so many young people who shave their arms all the time.


BAIR PAW
This was a new facility and they had these new “hospital gowns” called “Bair Paws.” They looked like regular hospital gowns but made out of a paper material and not fabric. They could be heated up and used like a heating blanket. They would hook a tube right into the gown and heat would flow through and keep the patients warm. You could adjust the heat yourself…high or low. It was quite awesome. Never a cold patient again.



Testing, testing... Finally after 9 months Russell can move his left arm properly so he can play his guitar!


Patriotic or Utes?...you decide.

Surgery
Utah Valley Outpatient Center
Provo, Utah

Last June, Russell’s bicep tendon on his left arm snapped and he had to have surgery to reattach it. As a result of that surgery a “new” bone grew that caused problems with the movement of his arm. He wasn’t able to supinate (palm up) or pronate (palm down), which also meant that he wasn’t able to play his guitar. Well, the doctor told us that the bone needed to fully mature and then they would go in and remove it. It was finally time and so here is the run down of events.

Day 1: Russell needed to be to the Utah Valley Outpatient Center at 6:15 a.m. on Thursday, February 19, 2009. Of course he was early (who's early to a 6:15 a.m. appointment?). The process went very smoothly and very professional. I stayed with him as they prepped him for surgery and at 7:30 they wheeled him into the operating room. At about 9:30 he came back to his little room directly from the recovery room. He was blessed with a young, spunky nurse by the name of Jen. During the next 2 ½ hour, Russell and Jen had fun being smart aleck’s to each other. Russell would dish it out and Jen would dish it right back. It was quite humorous. Anyway…when he came back from recovery he was quite sleepy. Doctor Curtis Johnson came by and checked Russell's movement in his fingers and thumb. Russell was able to move them just fine and Doctor Johnson said that everything went well. He had to make a larger incision then expected though. At about 10:30 they took Russell back to another room to give him a “block” in his shoulder area. This was supposed to block the pain for 12-24 hours. At noon we were on our way home. Once we were home he laid down and rested a few times throughout the day.

Day 2: We expected the block to possibly wear off during the night, but it didn’t! He slept well throughout the night. He felt just fine all day long and he didn’t need to take any pain medication! He went and ran errands with me during the day. He took a good nap later in the afternoon. We were very pleased with how well he seemed to be doing.

Day 3 & 4: Russell has to take medicine for 30 days to prevent any new bone of growing and it has many side effects, of which Russell as lots such as: dizziness, lightheadedness, drowsiness, headaches, constipation, fatigue, and ringing in the ears.

Day 5: Russell went to the doctor in the morning to get a release form so he could go back to work. While he was there, the doctor removed the original bandage and put a red removable cast on. To me it looks patriotic with the white straps and navy trim, but to Tyson it shouts University of Utah Ute’s all over it. The doctor also told him to stop taking the bone medication and just to take Motrin, because it has the same ingredients, but without the many side effects.

Tuesday, February 24, 2009

Camp Pens

Girl's Camp Pens
Aren't they darling?

A little closer look.


For the past few years, at our Stake Girl's Camp Leadership meeting, we have been given these darling CAMP PENS. I use mine ALL the time. I think they are so FUN. Well, this year I am a Stake Camp Assistant and I was given the opportunity to CREATE the pens for the upcoming camp director and YCL leadership meetings. It took me several hours to put these together, but I thoroughly enjoy it. It was EXCITING to see how different each one turned out. Can I just say how I LOVE everything about GIRL'S CAMP!

Cousin's are Great!

Sammy, Brooke, Zac, Lacey, Summer, Spencer, Kyle, and Amberly.

Kyle and Lacey drove to Arizona with me for my sibling reunion. They both had a good time spending time with their Merrill cousin's. It's been well over two years since Kyle has seen his cousin's. Kyle also spent time with two of his missionary buddies that live there.

Merrill Sibling Reunion

Dad, Sam, Ernie, & Joe on the houseboat.
At the Doll Baby Ranch headquarters entrance. Dad, Ernie, Debbie, Joe, Sam, Barbara, and Judy.

Doll Baby Ranch & Cattle Company.


Judy, Debbie, Dad, and Barbara.

Friday, February 13-Sunday, February 15, 2009



As Merrill siblings we wanted to get together for a weekend with each other, our spouses, Dad, and Lila. Not everyone was able to make it...hopefully next time they will be able to though. We had a good time with one another. Family is the best!

Destination: The Allen’s “Hideaway” Houseboat on Lake Roosevelt in Arizona.
Those in attendance: Dad, Ernie & Barb, Mark & Debbie, Joe, Sam & Carolyn, Scott & Barbara, & Judy.
Friday Activities: Gathering at the houseboat, visiting, eating rosemary chicken and red potatoes, and playing Conversation Cards.
Saturday Activities: A visit to the Doll Baby Ranch with a picnic lunch included, saying good-bye to Barb, Joe, Sam, and Carolyn, movies, visiting, and eating Café Rio Style Burritos.
Sunday Activities: Sacrament meeting at the Tonto Basin Branch, eating leftovers, a drive on the Apache Trail Road, and arriving at the Allen’s home.
P.S. I can’t forget to mention that we all enjoyed the Costco Chocolate Cake and Red Vine Licorice. Yummy!
I LOVE MY FAMILY!

Passing of a Patriarch

Ryan, along with five of his cousins were pallbearers.
The Gray family at the graveside service at the Lehi City Cemetery. Grandpa Gray is buried close to Tyler.

Military honors.

Presenting the American Flag to Grandma Gray.

Elder Kyle Gray with Grandpa and Grandma Gray on our way home from picking him up at the airport, upon returning from his mission. This was taken only twelve days before Grandpa passed away. What a treasured picture!


Russell's father passed away on Monday evening, February 2, 2009. He was such a good man and he will truly be missed by many. Following is Russell's dad's obituary.

John "Jack" James Gray, age 86, passed away at his home surrounded by his loving family, after a valiant battle with cancer on February 2, 2009.
He was born on October 24, 1922 in Lehi, Utah, the son of James Bertrum and Genevieve Thomas Gray.
He graduated from Lehi High School. He married Darlene Wathen on April 10, 1946 in the Salt Lake Temple. They are the parents of eight children. Jack served in the Army during WWII in the Pacific Theater, participating in three major battles and was awarded the Bronze Star. He worked for 36 years at Geneva Steel. He was a good cook, loved gardening, and was an avid BYU Cougar fan. He was a devoted care giver to his wife, loved his grandchildren and was always a great provider. Jack, along with Darlene served as a temple worker in the Provo Temple.
Survived by his sweetheart Darlene and eight children: Johnny (Mary) Gray, Lehi, Gordon Gray, Lehi, Carol (John) Allred, Lehi, Russell (Judy) Gray, Orem, Bert (Becky) Gray, Lehi, Bill (Jennifer) Gray, Lehi, Kathleen (Chris) Chaney, Alexandria, Virginia, Karen (Lance) Patterson, Portage, Utah, 38 grandchildren, 31 great-grandchildren.
He was preceded in death by his parents and 10 brothers and sisters. Funeral services will be Friday, February 6, 2009 at 1:00 p.m. in the Lehi 2nd Ward LDS Chapel, 300 North 495 East. Family and friends may call Thursday evening from 6-8:00 p.m. at Wing Mortuary, 118 E. Main, Lehi and one hour prior to service at the church. Interment, Lehi City Cemetery. Online guest book at wingmortuary.com.
The family would like to express their thanks to 1st Choice Hospice, and especially Merry, Don, Jason and Amy for all their loving care.

Wednesday, February 11, 2009

Happy Birthday Tyler




Today is our son, Tyler's 27th birthday. All I can say is I miss you and I LOVE YOU TYLER.

See Ya Later, Refrigerator!




Duct tape comes in handy for many things...one of them is holding a refrigerator handle on.
Out with the old and in with the new.


We said good-bye to a longtime friend in December…our refrigerator of almost twenty-two years. We noticed that the freezer section went out one Sunday morning and we thought that the refrigerator section was going out too, but like a good friend it kept serving us and it hung in there until we got a new one. For years our children have been bugging Russell and I to get a new refrigerator, because as you can see by the photos it wasn’t the most attractive thing and I’m sure our children were a little embarrassed by it. I’m a believer in the famous quote by many church leaders that have said, “Fix it up, wear it out, make it do, or do without.” We had “fixed it up” by the duct tape on the handle, we were “making it do,” but finally it “wore out.” As silly as this sounds, it was an emotionally event for me. It did its job and served us well over the years. It brought back memories of when we bought it when we moved into our home in Arizona on Jentilly Court next door to our dear friends the Carrells. Also, we bought it around the time that I became pregnant with Kyle. So, as you can see it brings back many joyful memories. I say, “See ya later, refrigerator” with sadness and gratefulness. Thanks ole friend.